Inspiration, Lifestyle

7 badass qualities of an alpha man or woman.

You'd know an alpha person when you spot one. The qualities are badass and distinctive. An alpha person just as the name implies, is the "numero uno". The one who leads the pack. The leader of his/her own life. He/she is smart and confident. The world today, can best be enjoyed by the mentally strong… Continue reading 7 badass qualities of an alpha man or woman.

Entertainment, Lifestyle

Funpost + Blue Sky Tag.

This post has kinda been in my drafts for a while now, so I thought...what best time to share it? Now ofcourse. grins. I was tagged by Ijay of, my amazing online friend. Hi Ijay... waves hand thankyou! Please check her out. Okies. The rule is to answer all ten questions asked by the… Continue reading Funpost + Blue Sky Tag.

Entertainment, Inspiration, Lifestyle

The crowd and your territory.

Recently, the #pepperdemgang has been trending. I honestly thought it's the title of one of Olamide's hit singles from his current album. Oh...literally it is. Until I started seeing it all over social media that it is (also) actually a gang that showcases luxury, wealth, cars, etc to pepperdem . Hian! Whatever that means that… Continue reading The crowd and your territory.

Inspiration, Lifestyle, motivation

The one thing you need to become more attractive.

The core of manifesting is how we feel. Whatever we feel on the inside reflects on the outside. When you feel gloomy,sad and all frustrated, you express some kind of unattraction. When you look at your outward circumstances and they aren't producing your desired results, you start feeling badly. This happens to almost everyone. Sometimes… Continue reading The one thing you need to become more attractive.

Entertainment, Inspiration, Lifestyle, motivation

9 Little known ways to boost your mood in 2mins or less.

You can always have a great day. A fantastic one. But everyday isn't the same and for some reasons, some days might just turn out bad. There are bad days that could put us in some kinda bad mood too. Perhaps an unfavorable job interview, an annoying colleague at workplace, a stranger who just picks… Continue reading 9 Little known ways to boost your mood in 2mins or less.

Entertainment, Lifestyle, Uncategorized

Share your social media link here.

This is an opportunity for everyone to meet new readers/followers by leaving their social media links in the comments section. I'm going to follow everyone who does and you should read and follow other links too. Everyone is welcome! This is for those who are interested in real/engaging and loyal readers/followers so be sure to… Continue reading Share your social media link here.

Entertainment, Family, Lifestyle

Top 5 Christmas -Tradition every Nigerian must relate with.

Christmas Holiday in Nigeria is a very huge celebration for everyone especially the Christians. People travel from far and wide with their families to their respective villages to celebrate it and participate in other fun & exciting activities. It is usually a time of merriment with plenty food and drinks, gifts-giving and sharing and events… Continue reading Top 5 Christmas -Tradition every Nigerian must relate with.

Entertainment, Inspiration, Lifestyle

How to have a lovely day…

Wishing you a lovely and happy day plus happy holidays. ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ Join me on Facebook, ( Jessicahugoinspire Page) and twitter (@jessyaijay). Xoxo

Family, Inspiration, Lifestyle, motivation

2017..Are you ready? 10 powerful things you should embrace in 2017.

As the year is gradually coming to an end, it is time to look at certain things to drop & certain things to take up So as to help you achieve your dreams for next year. I know everyone's started planning for next year, and all we hope to achieve and become. No I don't… Continue reading 2017..Are you ready? 10 powerful things you should embrace in 2017.

Inspiration, Lifestyle, motivation

7 fun ways to be more spontaneous in life.

Routine, Routine, Routine! Sameness & rigidity can become too predictive and boring sometimes. It's true having routines can tremendously help things get done timely, but it could become static , too serious and fun-less. ย Who says you should take life too serious anyway? Wouldn't you ratherย loosen up a bit?What's your typical routine like? Work-eat-sleep-repeat right?… Continue reading 7 fun ways to be more spontaneous in life.

Inspiration, Lifestyle, motivation

Sometimes, you have to be your own sunshine.

The sun illuminates our day, it shines and makes it bright. When it rises, darkness gives way and the cloud lightens up. Sometimes when you feel gloomy and sad, you have to be your own sunshine. Happiness is a choice and it totally depends on you to make yourself happy and stay happy. "Where ever… Continue reading Sometimes, you have to be your own sunshine.

Entertainment, Inspiration, Lifestyle

Liebster Award.

Hi guys, it's Monday and this is your Monday morning reminder... " You're awesome and you can do anything". I'm excited, I received warmly, the liebster award. This award is to recognise new blogs for their content, it's given to bloggers by other bloggers and I thank Mfon of for nominating me. Do visit… Continue reading Liebster Award.

Inspiration, Lifestyle, motivation

What kind of conversations are you having?

"One good conversation can shift the direction of change forever"~ Linda Lambert Often times in our not-so-busy moments, we engage in some conversations. We spend time talking about things which are relatively meaningless and adds no value to our lives. I'd rather call them 'crappy conversations'. Fatima wants to know what's going on in Bola'sย life,… Continue reading What kind of conversations are you having?


5 Simple tips for making a good first impression.

Are you like me? Inwards, reserved & sometimes shy? Even though I struggle to accept that I'm shy sometimes especially when I'm relating with an elder one or when I need to face a crowd of people, I am funnily shy sometimes. You find me looking away or face-down instead of directly at the person,… Continue reading 5 Simple tips for making a good first impression.


How to Improve your self-esteem.

Self-esteem is the evaluation of your own worth. The thoughts, feelings, opinions you have about yourself. It is usually shaped by our relationships and experiences. When you have a healthy self-esteem, it means you're confident in your own worth and abilities. However, some situations can make one develop a low self-esteem. Heartbreak, physical looks, not… Continue reading How to Improve your self-esteem.

Entertainment, Lifestyle

Myths or facts?

Hey guys, it's Saturday! Whoop, whoop!! I love Saturdays like madt. I don't even know why, but I know it dates back to my days in early primary school. Infact I narrated my love for Saturdaysย here. So last night, as i was reading a fairy-tale story to my son, i recollected a lot of myths… Continue reading Myths or facts?


8 Inspiring Nigerian women worthy of recognition

Women are the bedrock of the society. Our contributions towards a sustainable economy is no longer a subject of debate. We have clearly proven to be great leaders, entrepreneurs, CEOs, etc. Our position isn't just in the kitchen, living room ย or other room, we can also be in the board room. It's our celebrity crush… Continue reading 8 Inspiring Nigerian women worthy of recognition


Talent Vs Hardwork: On the path to success…

This has been an age long debate. Talent, which is one's natural ability or Hardwork which is commitment & diligence towards a set goal. Which of them tends to take one farther in life and why? Let's take a peek on this; God bestowed on each person a natural ability, whether in sports, singing, leadership/mentorship,… Continue reading Talent Vs Hardwork: On the path to success…


9 Toxic habits that sabotage your happiness you need to quit!

We all want to feel fulfilled and happy. Nothing is as exciting as this ecstatic feeling & satisfaction, yet we constantly sabotage it by our own selves. To achieve true happiness, we need to give up on some certain habits to enable us attain this. I'm going to share 9 deadly habits we need to… Continue reading 9 Toxic habits that sabotage your happiness you need to quit!


7 Important tips you need, to stop procrastinating now!

The struggle with procrastination is real. Sometimes things have to be done when it has to be done but for some reasons, aren't done. If you find yourself regularly postponing or putting important tasks off, just know you're not alone. Millions of other people procrastinate to some degree but some have formed it a habit… Continue reading 7 Important tips you need, to stop procrastinating now!


What you think Vs What it is…

You are what you think of yourself to be. If you think mediocrity, are you mediocre? Because that is what you have produced out of your own heart for yourself. You limit yourself by your own perception and fail to Recognise the treasures God has laid in you ( What it is). When you think… Continue reading What you think Vs What it is…

Family, Inspiration, Lifestyle, Uncategorized

6 Things introverts can relate with…

Phew! I can't imagine it's been a whole four days. Life could get busy sometimes, the kind of busy you have little time for yourself nor to write or do a post. Well I'm here now...smiles and I'm glad you are too. About today's post, it's been on my drafts for a while now, so… Continue reading 6 Things introverts can relate with…


No testimony without a test!

Sometimes life seems unfair.. Sometimes it feels like the world is turning upside down.. The struggles are real and you ask...why me? Sometimes you loose sight of the possibilities because all your eyes can see is all the bad things happening around. Sometimes you want to throw in the towel and say I'm done! It's… Continue reading No testimony without a test!

Inspiration, Lifestyle

Noise vs Sound reality!

It isn't difficult to differentiate between noise and sound. Noise is an unpleasant sound that isn't wanted. Sound itself is a vibration that travels through air, water and sensed by the ear. Noise can be sound, the main difference is that whereas noise is undesirable, sound is, whereas noise is irrelevant, sound is. In our… Continue reading Noise vs Sound reality!

Inspiration, motivation

What’s in your hand?

Hi guys, Welcome to another beautiful week, thanks for joining me here. I'm doing a topic I'd say is a part 2 of a previous topic, seeย HERE. I look at that picture up there and it reminds me there's something deposited in each and everyone of us. A special ability, skill, talent, something we all… Continue reading What’s in your hand?

Entertainment, Inspiration, Lifestyle

Blogger recognition award.

Ok this is exciting! Today is Saturday my favorite day. Y'all knowย My love 4 Saturdayโ€ฆย Woke up to a delightful email, Jessicahugoinspire blogger recognition award. Isn't it awesome? The blogger recognition award was created to Recognise some blogs impacting the blogosphere and i feel honored to be mentioned. Thanks Lesley ~ for nominating me. The… Continue reading Blogger recognition award.

Entertainment, Lifestyle, Uncategorized

Beauty Hack: Achieving a spotless skin.

Hey guys, so today I want to share a fair share of my challenges to achieving a spotless skin. Everyone wants a sparkling skin right? So do I. A woman's body changes a lot during/after pregnancy /child-birth or even due to aging or too much sun exposure. From excess melanin production leading to hyper pigmentation… Continue reading Beauty Hack: Achieving a spotless skin.

Inspiration, Lifestyle, motivation

The possibility of Impossibility.

Impossible--I'm possible. These two words have same letters but mean different things. While one is in the negative, the other is in the affirmative. Is there something, an idea, a vision or a goal in your heart that you think is unattainable or impossible? Give it a try. I know the hardest part is in… Continue reading The possibility of Impossibility.

Inspiration, motivation, Uncategorized

20 Inspiring life quotes that’ll make you think!

Indeed positive thoughts, motivational words, lift us and kindle/re-kindle some passion, fire, optimism in us to reach for the best that we can. It re-ignites some bit of hope to those who have lost hope and some confidence to those who dare. Words of inspiration help us draw ideas to fuel our passion and act… Continue reading 20 Inspiring life quotes that’ll make you think!

Entertainment, Inspiration, Lifestyle

The sunshine blogger award

Yay..Yayyyyy!! Guess who's got an award? Yea me. blushing . So Lesley,, made me a recipient of the Sunshine blogger award. I'm so excited. ย This award is designed to honour bloggers who bring the most sunshine into our lives with their posts/feeds. Barely four months into blogging and I have an awesome award already,Wow!… Continue reading The sunshine blogger award

Entertainment, Inspiration, Lifestyle

Here’s why you should smile today..๐Ÿ˜„

Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of live, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.~ Mother Teresa. The Universal Language of kindness they say is smile...when you smile, you send a message to your brain that you're happy. When you smile at someone, you brighten their day because you may… Continue reading Here’s why you should smile today..๐Ÿ˜„

Inspiration, motivation

Monday Inspiration-Keep trying…

Hey guys, welcome to a fresh day and week, another opportunity given to us to stay positive, keep striving and believing in the success of our endeavors. To never quit on ourself or think those goals, whatever it is, is not achievable. It is, but we have to keep trying. So long as there is… Continue reading Monday Inspiration-Keep trying…

Family, Inspiration, Lifestyle

Five things that make me happy right now!

A lot of things bring happiness to oneโ€™s soul. Positive & pleasant things that makes one smile & releases intense joy. It is a state of mind ( mental or emotional) one experiences thaโ€ฆ Source: Five things that make me happy right now!

Entertainment, Lifestyle

My love 4 Saturday…

I couldn't think of a topic to express my love for Saturdays..I love Saturdays, I sincerely do. I fell in love with Saturdays back in primary school when I knew you don't have to wake up early to go to school. On Friday nights, I stay up late watching my favorite TV programs without the… Continue reading My love 4 Saturday…

Inspiration, Lifestyle, motivation

Experience, Your path to fulfilment.

Hey Guys, so today, I'm going to talk about experience as it leads to fulfilment. Let's dig in... Experience is the knowledge or skill acquired of an event or events gained through months/ years of exposure to it. It is gained over time or by encounter. For instance, when you encounter a lion in the… Continue reading Experience, Your path to fulfilment.


Something about strength!(part 2).

" Strength doesn't come from what you can do, it comes from overcoming the things you thought you couldn't" Hi guys, today, I'm doing a part 2 of the topic "something about strength". If you missed the part 1, readย Here. Most times, your best comes through persistence and overcoming challenges. The ability to go through… Continue reading Something about strength!(part 2).

Entertainment, Inspiration

6 Strategic Ways to survive this recession!

Yea I know celebrity news & gossips sell, I know people want to be reading and bashing the government and the economy on daily basis. The economic recession is real and people are packing to their villages. But hey that's why I'm here, for inspiration and motivation. I'm a carrier of good news. And I… Continue reading 6 Strategic Ways to survive this recession!

Entertainment, Inspiration, Lifestyle, motivation

Finding a new you…(1 min read).

So yea, it's a new month, we're all basking in the joy of welcoming a fresh month which ushers us into the 'ember' months. New month, new blessings, new everything! How about a new you? No this isn't that normal new year resolutions, it's about finding yourself a new & being a better version of… Continue reading Finding a new you…(1 min read).

Entertainment, Inspiration, Lifestyle, Uncategorized

5 things every blog-writer can relate with!

Though i'm kinda new to blogging, I've been a writer for as long as i can remember. Blogging & creating content is a life-changing experience for me. I love to write, this isย Why I write. I'veย written many articles in the past but found it hard to properly document them so i end up loosing them,… Continue reading 5 things every blog-writer can relate with!


Something about strength!!

"Strength does not come from winning! Your struggles develop your strengths"~Arnold Schwarzenegger.ย  Hey guys, I was reading through a certain piece this morning when I came across this quote and it sunk in my mind and kept ringing in my head over and over again. I thought to write and share something inspiring about strength.… Continue reading Something about strength!!

Entertainment, Lifestyle, Uncategorized

Culture shock

Hey my people, there are so many cultures in this world o. Infact in this country alone, when you go to some remote areas and see their own way of life eh, I'm sure your mouth will stay open for one week. Sometime ago, BBC broke the news of a community in Malawi where it… Continue reading Culture shock

Inspiration, Lifestyle, motivation

6 great habits of successful people to emulate.

You know, if you want to be successful, ย you have to look up to those who are, find out how they made it and what they do. Success comes with a lot of hardwork, sometimes one fails before they succeed and you make a lot of sacrifices. But I found out to be successful, you… Continue reading 6 great habits of successful people to emulate.

Inspiration, Lifestyle, motivation

Being courageously you!

Often, people say..."life is hard" and I feel compelled to ask..."Compared to what exactly?" No doubt the economic recession and hardship presently, has made almost everyone accept that phrase. But what is to be compared to life itself? A life of courage and hope, a life where you make mistakes, learn from them, fail and… Continue reading Being courageously you!

Entertainment, Inspiration, Interview/reviews, Lifestyle, Uncategorized

Natural hair growth & care: Interview with CEO, Black Elegance hair consultancy.

I have always loved the natural hair. The texture, curl/coil pattern, volume, beauty, and most importantly, how ย healthy it is. Being a naturalista myself, I sought to know various ways I can grow and care for my hair better and Black Elegance hair consultancy came to mind. She is a trained online hair consultant and… Continue reading Natural hair growth & care: Interview with CEO, Black Elegance hair consultancy.

Entertainment, Inspiration, Lifestyle, motivation


That word is exciting already isn't it? When you talk about passion, you talk about energy, zeal, enthusiasm, love, fulfilment, etc. "passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you"~ Oprah Winfrey. I'm going to base today's post on Oprah's quote. Energy... Excitement... Focus...Power... Aren't those most of what one… Continue reading Passion!!!

Entertainment, Family, Inspiration, Lifestyle

Five things that make me happy right now!

A lot of things bring happiness to one's soul. Positive & pleasant things that makes one smile & releases intense joy. It is a state of mind ( mental or emotional) one experiences that makes life meaningful & worthwhile. It is good for our health, helps people cope with stress, good for our relationships, helps… Continue reading Five things that make me happy right now!