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Reliving Childhood: 5 things I wish I learnt growing up.

This is a lighthearted post, I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I did writing it.

I remember dancing in the rain, it was quite fun playing when it rained. I did that a lot of times and I remember when mama would scream…“Get inside, you’ll catch cold”! in my dialect (Ibo) cos that always sunk how serious that instruction was! Then I’d spend a long time shivering afterwards.

I and my friends cooked a lot. You know that kind of cooking you do with empty tomato-tins as pot, broomsticks as firewood, different kinds of grasses as food ingredients and gravels as meat. Lol

I remember tying dolls to my back, acting like a mum and reading to flowers, seats and everything on sight acting like my school teacher.

I was energetic too and enjoyed sports especially the 100m dash-race. ( you’ll have to comman beat me to try this now).

I learnt riding bicycle, knitting, gush! You needed to see me in action with my spoke and wools. Hehe. I also learnt some bit of stitching too that’s why y’all young chaps better take your home economics classes serious.


The hard truth is, you’re only young once. Once you’re grown up, you can never go back. You’re only left with memories. And when you start a career, get married, have kids, life happens! Now picture yourself learning how to ride a bicycle in the street now or how to use the internet. Funny right?

Okies. Let’s delve into this already shall we? Here are five things I wish I learnt growing up.

Plaiting hair: For real, this is a good skill. You can even make some pretty cool cash with it. I have two daughters and I wish I could plait their hair or even mine pretty well myself. I try sometimes but it never comes out as good as when it’s done by the hairdressers. sob. I’m learning now though.

Learning other foreign and local languages: I love French, Spanish and German. I wish I can speak them fluently. The best times to learn languages would be childhood right? atleast you have fewer to-do lists. I wish I learnt other local languages in Nigeria too. Like Yoruba, Hausa and Efik. They can be quite useful you know?

Playing a musical 🎶 instrument: How I love the piano. I can sing pretty well. i dey try. ( or so I think) lol. Learning to play just one instrument would have been so awesome. Music is life!

Home repairs 101: oh yes! This should be a basic life skill. It is sooo necessary. You know, like being able to fix certain electrical faults around the home. Repairing some plumbing works like the kitchen tap or something. Maybe changing spare tyres as well. Not saying a 12-year old should become an electrician or plumber, but looking into how these things work can be useful sometimes.

Swimming: Ok!! I wouldn’t want anyone laughing at me at the pool so I might just stylishly learn this as well. What’s the use wearing a bikini and getting on the pool only to stand at the edge? Lol. before water wee comman carry me, I rather just sit outside the pool with my sunshades. its not me that wee comman fall my hand. Yimmu

So there you go guys, what are some stuffs you wish you learnt growing up?

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Do have a pleasant day y’all.

Jessica Hugo.


84 thoughts on “Reliving Childhood: 5 things I wish I learnt growing up.”

  1. I know how to swim 🙂 but I too wish I had learned the other four-especially plaiting hair. I always wanted to know how, but my mom wasn’t girly even in the least sense, and I didn’t had anyone else to ask. I love the way you write too, by the way. If you write fiction at all, and ever want to join my “Fiction Fridays’ contest, I would love it! I really really like your writing style.

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  2. Nothing is too late Jessica. I myself too has a lot of things in mind that I wished I have learned when I was a kid, like swimming or learning a third language. Starting now can make a difference. Right now, I’m trying to learn Spanish with the Duolingo app on my smartphone. Hope I can master this language soon haha

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  3. It’s important to learn all the skills that you need while growing up so you won’t have a difficult time when you start living on your own. These are very nice lessons. Thanks for sharing more about you.

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  4. I guess my question is, “Have you learned how to do them?” I know we get to a place were we wish we knew these things, but time is not done with us yet…. so what have you learned today? 😀

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  5. I wish I was strong enough to do home repairs! My dad taught me well. Like with my car I could change my oil but I’m also not strong enough to get it done by myself LOL. You can always still learn a new language or learn to play an instrument! It is never too late, it just might be a little harder now than when you were younger!


  6. I wish I had learnt how to sing when I was a child. I tried to learn much later, in my 30’s and was not good at it, However, I can smile at the memories now.


  7. This makes a great start on a childhood bucket list! My hair is less kinky than yours I suspect, so easier to braid, but honestly, I didn’t learn to braid my own or anyone else’s till I READ HOW in my 20s. 🙂


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