Me being kinda a calm person, I often wondered how some people enter a place with their mouth first. Like, from the entrance, they're already screaming on top of their voice. I thought that was a bit weird but I understand better now. While some others liked social events, partying, etc, I'd rather stay indoors… Continue reading The truth about you!
Hey guys, goodnews!!! I'm super excited to share with you my maiden powerful motivational book " The pre-Eminent mind -supercharging your creative abilities for excellence". This is my first ever published book and I feel so so happy and fulfilled. I'm just not going to call myself a writer henceforth, but an author. An author guys, an… Continue reading New Author Alert!!!
The world is complex. In our everyday life, we come across various people who exhibit different forms of behaviors. Whether in the workplace, our social environment or personal relationships. This forms of behaviors affect our lives directly or indirectly. The subject of this post is centered on grandiose narcissism and superiority complex. Because it is rather disturbing… Continue reading Signs of Grandiose Narcissism and superiority complex. And how to deal with them.
So I saw this post card that reads: Better days are coming;they're called Saturdays and Sundays. I just couldn't help but grin with wide smiles. I mean... who doesn't love weekends? Whoever cunned that word TGIF, thank you! It is so relaxing to have days like this I swear. While we're basking in the euphoria of the lovely weekend,… Continue reading Something to reflect on, in one minute.
These are some of my blogging pet peeves. And as an ardent reader, I personally find them irritating when I visit some websites. No matter how interesting/entertaining, or juicy the information i'm seeking is, I bounce off and may likely not return. These may serve as some blogging tips, but honestly, I'm no expert in… Continue reading The ultimate guide to annoying your reader in 5 simple ways.
You'd know an alpha person when you spot one. The qualities are badass and distinctive. An alpha person just as the name implies, is the "numero uno". The one who leads the pack. The leader of his/her own life. He/she is smart and confident. The world today, can best be enjoyed by the mentally strong… Continue reading 7 badass qualities of an alpha man or woman.
It's a new month guys, yayyy!! I'm super glad to have you here with me, thanks for joining. Today, I'll be discussing an interesting topic, deep breathe overcoming- your- fear- of-dreaming. We all have dreams, aspirations, goals, and so forth in life, some of them have been ever since we were a child. We all want… Continue reading 4 easy ways to overcome your fear of DREAMING.
This post has kinda been in my drafts for a while now, so I thought...what best time to share it? Now ofcourse. grins. I was tagged by Ijay of http://www.ijefinelivin.com, my amazing online friend. Hi Ijay... waves hand thankyou! Please check her out. Okies. The rule is to answer all ten questions asked by the… Continue reading Funpost + Blue Sky Tag.
The future is hidden, no one can accurately predict tomorrow's outcomes. But we believe that it is certainly a good one. So as humans, we sometimes worry about things. Many things. We worry about our jobs, kids, friends or even parents. We worry about gaining or loosing weight, being more or less attractive, getting older,… Continue reading It’s OK to worry, or maybe not to.
The things we take seriously may often be far from what it actually is. We can get lost in things that don't count such that life whizzes away and we barely even notice. We hold on to things that aren't really important and they do nothing but weigh us down! Life itself is such a… Continue reading On having a sense of humor.
This is a lighthearted post, I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I did writing it. I remember dancing in the rain, it was quite fun playing when it rained. I did that a lot of times and I remember when mama would scream..."Get inside, you'll catch cold"! in my dialect (Ibo) cos… Continue reading Reliving Childhood: 5 things I wish I learnt growing up.
This has been a lifelong debate. Sometimes when people become successful, they attribute it to grace. While some others would say it's all hardwork. By hardwork I mean, your personal efforts and perseverance towards your set objective or fulfillment. I always hear when you work hard, you'll become successful. Hard work leads to success. If… Continue reading Grace Vs Hardwork
I often look at my kids with keen interest when they're playing and jumping around. They absolutely have nothing to care about except ofcourse their toys, racing about and laughing as hard as they can. Makes me sometimes reminisce on being a child and worrying about freaking nothing! If you observe children, you'd realize how… Continue reading The little things…
" All glory comes from daring to begin"~ Eugene F. Ware. We all have dreams, we all have goals, many of us have plans of things we want to do. We write them down and then dream about them all day. The hard part? Taking action!! It seems always difficult to start anything. The zeal… Continue reading The Power in “starting”
Recently, the #pepperdemgang has been trending. I honestly thought it's the title of one of Olamide's hit singles from his current album. Oh...literally it is. Until I started seeing it all over social media that it is (also) actually a gang that showcases luxury, wealth, cars, etc to pepperdem . Hian! Whatever that means that… Continue reading The crowd and your territory.
Affirmations are a great way of flooding our brain and entire being with positive thoughts. They transform our outlook to life. It is always said that thoughts precedes actions and then actions produce results. So if you want to achieve anything, start with your thoughts. Claim it in your mind! Declaring something as if it… Continue reading 15 simple and impactful affirmations you should say everyday.
Times are tough. The economic situation, insecurities, etc are hitting hard. It's difficult to stay optimistic amidst all these realities especially if it seems the dreams are far-fetched. For most people, behaviors become distorted and minds become biased. It's quite easy to loose hope when there's all the reasons for it. But it doesn't necessarily… Continue reading Half empty or half full?
I really don't know how I started blogging. As in... I can't explain. But I know I'm very passionate about writing. Writing is my thing. But somehow, I kept loosing all the stuffs I wrote. I didn't have a platform to share them so I ended up shoving sheets into different areas of the home… Continue reading 3 Wittiest misconceptions about blogging I’ve come across.
The core of manifesting is how we feel. Whatever we feel on the inside reflects on the outside. When you feel gloomy,sad and all frustrated, you express some kind of unattraction. When you look at your outward circumstances and they aren't producing your desired results, you start feeling badly. This happens to almost everyone. Sometimes… Continue reading The one thing you need to become more attractive.
The mind is the faculty which serves our thought-processes, judgements, consciousness and perception to life. It is the center of our reasoning and thoughts. And so the way you reason and perceive life forms your mindset and your beliefs. You make assumptions, feel or do certain things based on that belief which becomes your philosophy of… Continue reading 5 signs you have a mediocre mindset and how to deal with it.
You see, our minds are always in constant battle. Do I..., do I not...,should I..., should I not..., the voices go on and on, each agitating for their own. Everyday I set my mind on the things I want to achieve for the day, everything. Then the alarm goes off..time to get off the bed.… Continue reading The Voices in my head
Ever been in situations where it seems your hopes are daunting and you feel like throwing-in the towel? Where you wake up sometimes and feel a sense of futility - When you can't see the point in even trying anymore. It's really hard to be confident of success when you have yet to experience it.… Continue reading 7 beneficial ways to press forward when you feel like giving up.
It's Thursday, let's share some humor. Laughter is the best medicine, a day without laughter is a wasted one. It helps us stay optimistic, fights stress, brightens our mood, strengthens the immune system, improves appearance, boosts our esteem and mental health and ultimately makes life more fun and interesting. It's very essential to inject humor… Continue reading Live, Laugh, Love.
So you discovered you have a great singing ability, or you're a good dancer, perhaps outstanding in sports/athletics, or in acting/drama, writing/public speaking, creative drawing & painting, whatever it is that is a raw talent deposited in you. Many times, the things we're most drawn to and that we receive the most compliments for, are… Continue reading 7 effective ways to fine-tune your potential and turn it into a unique asset.
We don't have control over certain occurrences or situations. Life isn't all perfect and no one has it all figured out. Challenges arise, pain, etc. What we certainly have control over is how we choose to react to those circumstances and what energy we decide to focus on. Even amidst the most difficult… Continue reading Best ways to become more positive in life
I did a post on A good way to start a good day. , which were useful tips on starting your day right. But I felt it would be incomplete if I don't also share tips on how to end the day right. We can literally start in a way to have a great day but then… Continue reading 7 Epic ways to end your day just right.
You can always have a great day. A fantastic one. But everyday isn't the same and for some reasons, some days might just turn out bad. There are bad days that could put us in some kinda bad mood too. Perhaps an unfavorable job interview, an annoying colleague at workplace, a stranger who just picks… Continue reading 9 Little known ways to boost your mood in 2mins or less.
Personal development is a set of actions you take to make yourself a better person. It isn't basically about the outward appearance, it encompasses your overall personality both inwards and outwards. It involves physical & mental wellbeing, lifestyles, your identity, modesty, thought- processes, sociability, etc. It is a continuous conscious effort. Personal development can help one… Continue reading 7 great personal Development tips you should know about.
Hi guys, happy new month. The year is almost coming to an end 😳. 😄 Nah just a joke. So today, I'm profiling a celebrity. I usually have this Celebrity - Wednesdays I used to do, it's been a while so I thought, why not? More so now,this celebrity is the heat of the moment.… Continue reading Celebrity Profile-Innocent ‘Tuface’ Idibia.
This is an opportunity for everyone to meet new readers/followers by leaving their social media links in the comments section. I'm going to follow everyone who does and you should read and follow other links too. Everyone is welcome! This is for those who are interested in real/engaging and loyal readers/followers so be sure to… Continue reading Share your social media link here.
Hi guys, how y'all doing? Everyone wakes up with the intention of having a drama-free and fulfilling day but most times, this is compromised by a few things we don't get right especially when we wake up in the morning. What you do within those first few moments can go a long way to affect… Continue reading A Good way to start a Good day.
We get exhausted after a long day, yet we seem to gravitate towards the things that even drain us the more. We forget to take in-cognizance, our body's need for rest and this gets us even more exhausted and less productive. We all need to listen to our body when it says...rest! and obey. Learn… Continue reading 6 easy ways to unwind, after a long day..
Hey guys, it's weekend whoop! Whoop! So today, I'm sharing with you real life stories of people who pushed beyond boundaries and didn't let their circumstances define them. As you know, my blog is about inspiration, to inspire people to live their happiest and best lives. If you'd like to keep updated with stories and… Continue reading 5 Inspiring real life stories of people who didn’t let their circumstances define them.
From childhood to early adulthood, it's been the duty of our parents, guardians, aunts/uncles, or elder siblings to take care of us. They wake us up to have our bath, perhaps feed and prepare us for school and also take care of our every essential need. They take the major decisions in our lives because… Continue reading A new way to think about self-reliance.
When we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change~ Anonymous. We all have the low and the high points in our lives. The low point is that moment when it seems like the world has crushed down on you. When nothing seems to be working out & life seems hopeless. When… Continue reading When your lowest point becomes your turning point.
Hey guys, Welcome back to my blog and a fresh new year. It's hard to believe 2007 was 10years ago. Wow! Time flies super fast! Remember I told you a lot people travel during festive periods to spend time with relatives or even vacay? Well, I did 😊, and it was cool. Only that there… Continue reading Recap plus 7 super tips for personal development that’ll inspire you.
We had a chat with Precious Meshi Nkeih, US-based Cameroonian food/lifestyle blogger. Now here's what blogging does, you get to meet so many amazing people and get to share knowledge as well. She shares with us, her blogging Journey and inspirations. Please relax and enjoy! What inspired you to start blogging? God inspired me to… Continue reading Guest Feature: Precious Nkeih, on blogging and Inspiration.
I've read many articles and journals on the rules of success. In each, it is believed that if you follow those rules, you'll become successful. Maybe if you don't, you won't. Don't get me wrong, we definitely need to emulate great habits of successful people. Perhaps, that will set us on the right direction to becoming… Continue reading Does achieving Success actually have rules? Is there a blue print to success?
Christmas Holiday in Nigeria is a very huge celebration for everyone especially the Christians. People travel from far and wide with their families to their respective villages to celebrate it and participate in other fun & exciting activities. It is usually a time of merriment with plenty food and drinks, gifts-giving and sharing and events… Continue reading Top 5 Christmas -Tradition every Nigerian must relate with.
Wishing you a lovely and happy day plus happy holidays. 😘😘 Join me on Facebook, ( Jessicahugoinspire Page) and twitter (@jessyaijay). Xoxo
As the year is gradually coming to an end, it is time to look at certain things to drop & certain things to take up So as to help you achieve your dreams for next year. I know everyone's started planning for next year, and all we hope to achieve and become. No I don't… Continue reading 2017..Are you ready? 10 powerful things you should embrace in 2017.
Letting go is a very difficult thing to do. Whether a toxic relationship, past hurt, circumstances you can't control, etc. Dealing with sadness, frustrations and disappointments is very tough. Life isn't simple, as we live each day, we may encounter some challenges. The problem is, we often hold on to it far beyond its capacity… Continue reading Letting go…
Honestly I'm not the type that's quick to anger, but anger is a completely normal human emotion. It is response to grievance & I bet you understand this because we've all experienced it whether in full-blown rage or passively, one time or the other. Some situations can turn one's eyes so red in rage that… Continue reading Anything that angers you teaches forgiveness & compassion.
The gap, that gap, the space in between two worlds where you either go here or there. If you mind the gap properly, then you might just get to your destination safely. You know that feeling? Like after graduating from the university with really high hopes for the future eg landing your dream job and… Continue reading Mind-the -gap.
I feel the strong determination to strive to be better than who I was yesterday through personal development. I am committing to personal development mentally and otherwise. That's commitment. Commitment involves dedicating yourself to something or somethings as the case may be, a firm decision to do a cause. It is the willingness to invest… Continue reading What is commitment and why should you commit to anything at all?
Setting goals is easy, but the hard part is following through to achieve them. The ability to get stuffs done when you feel like just laying on your bed or even giving up entirely isn't quite easy. Sometimes we procrastinate and drag our feet when something really important should be done. We all need motivation… Continue reading 11 Simple ways to motivate yourself daily.
Hi guys, uuhhm... I've been gone for how many days now? 😔 Was kinda Ill but I feel better now. So yesternight just as I was checking social media for happenings around the world, I came across an interesting piece on feminism. Some of the things I didn't quite agree with. I did a piece… Continue reading On Feminism…How much is too far?
Routine, Routine, Routine! Sameness & rigidity can become too predictive and boring sometimes. It's true having routines can tremendously help things get done timely, but it could become static , too serious and fun-less. Who says you should take life too serious anyway? Wouldn't you rather loosen up a bit?What's your typical routine like? Work-eat-sleep-repeat right?… Continue reading 7 fun ways to be more spontaneous in life.
The sun illuminates our day, it shines and makes it bright. When it rises, darkness gives way and the cloud lightens up. Sometimes when you feel gloomy and sad, you have to be your own sunshine. Happiness is a choice and it totally depends on you to make yourself happy and stay happy. "Where ever… Continue reading Sometimes, you have to be your own sunshine.
Stress is a feeling we experience whether short term or long term, in our career, education, and everyday life. Sometimes, certain situations overwhelm us and we begin to feel "out of control". We may feel tensed, agitated, moody, depressed, anxious, excited or even angry. To respond to that stress, our brain releases stress hormones to… Continue reading Stressed? 7 proven ways to get relief.