Oh boy! One thing I'm so happy about right now is how I've been able (with constant reminders/practice) to shift my paradigm from focusing on the negative side of humanity to accentuating the positive. I waste no time dwelling on anything negative. Negative energy does nothing but zap the joy out of life. You create… Continue reading 5 easy ways to cultivate a positive mindset. (Personal growth)
For some reason, our brain is wired in such a way that we're constantly criticizing ourselves. Self-criticism is one major problem which impacts on our lives, our dreams and our relationship with others. Whether it's a little mistake, or one tiny little nasty thing, We're constantly beating ourselves up. We are constantly tainted with many… Continue reading Dear self; Speaking to yourself kindly.
It's 2018. I mean, there's no time for time itself. Seems like the earth is revolving round the sun faster than it used to. The world is moving really fast. Before you'd say BOOM!!! We'll be celebrating Easter already. That aside, I'm super super excited for another year, it's a great privilege. You know, every… Continue reading Keeping your new year resolutions, in four strategic ways.
The journey of personal development is a lifelong one. You get to learn how to become more confident and happier by improving your self-awareness and identity, developing your skills and talents and setting goals in order to realize your dreams and aspirations. It is indeed an important aspect of life and it is a continuous… Continue reading 5 more reasons why you should embark on personal development now.
We live in the computer-age. The age of information also called the digital-age. The new -media age. Everything has gone digital. We do more emails than send physical letters, because why not? Emails are instant while letters travel for days. We chat and send messages more than we hold physical conversations, we buy air/bus tickets… Continue reading In a world full of distractions, this is how to stay connected with yourself.
A conversation is interactive. It is a communication where two or more people share news or exchange ideas. I highlighted communication because it is basically about sending and receiving information and it goes both ways. During a conversation, it is important for the message to be understood and properly interpreted and for the recipient to… Continue reading 5 common mistakes people make during a conversation and how to avoid them.
There's this quote almost everyone knows, it's quite common. I like to remind myself of that quote every time I'm working on something. The quote... " Rome was not built in a day"! It reminds us of patience and time. It tells us that so long as we keep up with whatever we're doing, we… Continue reading Patience or procrastination? Meet the friends.
"Happiness is not something already-made, it comes from your own actions"~ Dalai Lama. I totally agree with Dalai's quote! You see, for so many reasons, we've come to take life too seriously. Our inner-critic is almost always active. Judging and lambasting us every minute. We spend more time bashing and criticizing ourselves than we do… Continue reading This ten list of things will help you maintain a sense of happiness.(check it out)
If you look up how many times the word -success is used everyday, you won't be surprised at the figures because everyone's major goal in life is to succeed. With it meaning different things to different people and everyone measuring it by their own standards, it's quite an ambiguous word. Really huge one. People tend… Continue reading Success is overrated. (See why)
"Broad-mindedness is relative to tolerance, open-mindedness is sibling to peace~Salmon R. You see, we all process information differently. We hear what we want and feel the way we want based on our understanding. People understand (decode) information differently and this forms their beliefs, views, or opinions about any situation. This is because each one of… Continue reading Open-mindedness; another form of mindfulness.
I remember one time I watched a documentary about a lady auto - repairs mechanic on one of the local television channels in Nigeria, a few years ago. Being a mechanic and a lady at that time isn't what is often seen in the country so much that it warranted a full documentary!!! I'm still… Continue reading Let’s talk about gender stereotyping.
About today's title, I've often pondered on it. Like, does one always need a plan B? You know, like not putting all your eggs in one basket just incase of incasity. (Please don't look up that word in the dictionary. It doesn't exist. Lol). Some researchers and human psychologists say having a plan B makes… Continue reading Do you really need a Plan B?
Hey guys, removing cobwebs. It's been pretty long here I know...you missed me too right? 😊😊. Okay, my notepad is filled with so many potential blogposts to put up here for you but somehow, I'm trying to organize everything in such a way you'd know what category to expect each day when a new post… Continue reading Reliving childhood; Five things I wish I learnt growing up.
In December 2005, a passenger aircraft with 110 persons onboard, traveling from Abuja to Port-Harcourt, Nigeria crash-landed in Port-Harcourt. That event is so memorable. One of the two survivors, badly burnt and almost unrecognizable was Kechi Okwuchi. I watched her recently on Americas Got Talent (AGT) were she wowed the audience. Before she began, she explained… Continue reading 5 Super ways your hobby can change your life completely!
Mother Nature is beautiful. She provides us with all the natural resources we need to survive in this planet. She blesses us with the sun and the rain as needed. Our obligation is to conserve these natural resources and reduce waste so as to keep the earth inhabitable. However, Mother Nature can decide to go… Continue reading When Mother Nature Attacks…