Recently, the #pepperdemgang has been trending. I honestly thought it's the title of one of Olamide's hit singles from his current album. Oh...literally it is. Until I started seeing it all over social media that it is (also) actually a gang that showcases luxury, wealth, cars, etc to pepperdem . Hian! Whatever that means that… Continue reading The crowd and your territory.
Affirmations are a great way of flooding our brain and entire being with positive thoughts. They transform our outlook to life. It is always said that thoughts precedes actions and then actions produce results. So if you want to achieve anything, start with your thoughts. Claim it in your mind! Declaring something as if it… Continue reading 15 simple and impactful affirmations you should say everyday.
Times are tough. The economic situation, insecurities, etc are hitting hard. It's difficult to stay optimistic amidst all these realities especially if it seems the dreams are far-fetched. For most people, behaviors become distorted and minds become biased. It's quite easy to loose hope when there's all the reasons for it. But it doesn't necessarily… Continue reading Half empty or half full?
I really don't know how I started blogging. As in... I can't explain. But I know I'm very passionate about writing. Writing is my thing. But somehow, I kept loosing all the stuffs I wrote. I didn't have a platform to share them so I ended up shoving sheets into different areas of the home… Continue reading 3 Wittiest misconceptions about blogging I’ve come across.
The core of manifesting is how we feel. Whatever we feel on the inside reflects on the outside. When you feel gloomy,sad and all frustrated, you express some kind of unattraction. When you look at your outward circumstances and they aren't producing your desired results, you start feeling badly. This happens to almost everyone. Sometimes… Continue reading The one thing you need to become more attractive.
The mind is the faculty which serves our thought-processes, judgements, consciousness and perception to life. It is the center of our reasoning and thoughts. And so the way you reason and perceive life forms your mindset and your beliefs. You make assumptions, feel or do certain things based on that belief which becomes your philosophy of… Continue reading 5 signs you have a mediocre mindset and how to deal with it.
You see, our minds are always in constant battle. Do I..., do I not...,should I..., should I not..., the voices go on and on, each agitating for their own. Everyday I set my mind on the things I want to achieve for the day, everything. Then the alarm goes off..time to get off the bed.… Continue reading The Voices in my head
Ever been in situations where it seems your hopes are daunting and you feel like throwing-in the towel? Where you wake up sometimes and feel a sense of futility - When you can't see the point in even trying anymore. It's really hard to be confident of success when you have yet to experience it.… Continue reading 7 beneficial ways to press forward when you feel like giving up.
It's Thursday, let's share some humor. Laughter is the best medicine, a day without laughter is a wasted one. It helps us stay optimistic, fights stress, brightens our mood, strengthens the immune system, improves appearance, boosts our esteem and mental health and ultimately makes life more fun and interesting. It's very essential to inject humor… Continue reading Live, Laugh, Love.
So you discovered you have a great singing ability, or you're a good dancer, perhaps outstanding in sports/athletics, or in acting/drama, writing/public speaking, creative drawing & painting, whatever it is that is a raw talent deposited in you. Many times, the things we're most drawn to and that we receive the most compliments for, are… Continue reading 7 effective ways to fine-tune your potential and turn it into a unique asset.
We don't have control over certain occurrences or situations. Life isn't all perfect and no one has it all figured out. Challenges arise, pain, etc. What we certainly have control over is how we choose to react to those circumstances and what energy we decide to focus on. Even amidst the most difficult… Continue reading Best ways to become more positive in life
I did a post on A good way to start a good day. , which were useful tips on starting your day right. But I felt it would be incomplete if I don't also share tips on how to end the day right. We can literally start in a way to have a great day but then… Continue reading 7 Epic ways to end your day just right.
You can always have a great day. A fantastic one. But everyday isn't the same and for some reasons, some days might just turn out bad. There are bad days that could put us in some kinda bad mood too. Perhaps an unfavorable job interview, an annoying colleague at workplace, a stranger who just picks… Continue reading 9 Little known ways to boost your mood in 2mins or less.
Personal development is a set of actions you take to make yourself a better person. It isn't basically about the outward appearance, it encompasses your overall personality both inwards and outwards. It involves physical & mental wellbeing, lifestyles, your identity, modesty, thought- processes, sociability, etc. It is a continuous conscious effort. Personal development can help one… Continue reading 7 great personal Development tips you should know about.
Hi guys, happy new month. The year is almost coming to an end 😳. 😄 Nah just a joke. So today, I'm profiling a celebrity. I usually have this Celebrity - Wednesdays I used to do, it's been a while so I thought, why not? More so now,this celebrity is the heat of the moment.… Continue reading Celebrity Profile-Innocent ‘Tuface’ Idibia.
This is an opportunity for everyone to meet new readers/followers by leaving their social media links in the comments section. I'm going to follow everyone who does and you should read and follow other links too. Everyone is welcome! This is for those who are interested in real/engaging and loyal readers/followers so be sure to… Continue reading Share your social media link here.
Hi guys, how y'all doing? Everyone wakes up with the intention of having a drama-free and fulfilling day but most times, this is compromised by a few things we don't get right especially when we wake up in the morning. What you do within those first few moments can go a long way to affect… Continue reading A Good way to start a Good day.
We get exhausted after a long day, yet we seem to gravitate towards the things that even drain us the more. We forget to take in-cognizance, our body's need for rest and this gets us even more exhausted and less productive. We all need to listen to our body when it says...rest! and obey. Learn… Continue reading 6 easy ways to unwind, after a long day..
Hey guys, it's weekend whoop! Whoop! So today, I'm sharing with you real life stories of people who pushed beyond boundaries and didn't let their circumstances define them. As you know, my blog is about inspiration, to inspire people to live their happiest and best lives. If you'd like to keep updated with stories and… Continue reading 5 Inspiring real life stories of people who didn’t let their circumstances define them.
From childhood to early adulthood, it's been the duty of our parents, guardians, aunts/uncles, or elder siblings to take care of us. They wake us up to have our bath, perhaps feed and prepare us for school and also take care of our every essential need. They take the major decisions in our lives because… Continue reading A new way to think about self-reliance.
When we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change~ Anonymous. We all have the low and the high points in our lives. The low point is that moment when it seems like the world has crushed down on you. When nothing seems to be working out & life seems hopeless. When… Continue reading When your lowest point becomes your turning point.
Hey guys, Welcome back to my blog and a fresh new year. It's hard to believe 2007 was 10years ago. Wow! Time flies super fast! Remember I told you a lot people travel during festive periods to spend time with relatives or even vacay? Well, I did 😊, and it was cool. Only that there… Continue reading Recap plus 7 super tips for personal development that’ll inspire you.
We had a chat with Precious Meshi Nkeih, US-based Cameroonian food/lifestyle blogger. Now here's what blogging does, you get to meet so many amazing people and get to share knowledge as well. She shares with us, her blogging Journey and inspirations. Please relax and enjoy! What inspired you to start blogging? God inspired me to… Continue reading Guest Feature: Precious Nkeih, on blogging and Inspiration.
I've read many articles and journals on the rules of success. In each, it is believed that if you follow those rules, you'll become successful. Maybe if you don't, you won't. Don't get me wrong, we definitely need to emulate great habits of successful people. Perhaps, that will set us on the right direction to becoming… Continue reading Does achieving Success actually have rules? Is there a blue print to success?
Christmas Holiday in Nigeria is a very huge celebration for everyone especially the Christians. People travel from far and wide with their families to their respective villages to celebrate it and participate in other fun & exciting activities. It is usually a time of merriment with plenty food and drinks, gifts-giving and sharing and events… Continue reading Top 5 Christmas -Tradition every Nigerian must relate with.
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As the year is gradually coming to an end, it is time to look at certain things to drop & certain things to take up So as to help you achieve your dreams for next year. I know everyone's started planning for next year, and all we hope to achieve and become. No I don't… Continue reading 2017..Are you ready? 10 powerful things you should embrace in 2017.
Letting go is a very difficult thing to do. Whether a toxic relationship, past hurt, circumstances you can't control, etc. Dealing with sadness, frustrations and disappointments is very tough. Life isn't simple, as we live each day, we may encounter some challenges. The problem is, we often hold on to it far beyond its capacity… Continue reading Letting go…
Honestly I'm not the type that's quick to anger, but anger is a completely normal human emotion. It is response to grievance & I bet you understand this because we've all experienced it whether in full-blown rage or passively, one time or the other. Some situations can turn one's eyes so red in rage that… Continue reading Anything that angers you teaches forgiveness & compassion.
The gap, that gap, the space in between two worlds where you either go here or there. If you mind the gap properly, then you might just get to your destination safely. You know that feeling? Like after graduating from the university with really high hopes for the future eg landing your dream job and… Continue reading Mind-the -gap.
I feel the strong determination to strive to be better than who I was yesterday through personal development. I am committing to personal development mentally and otherwise. That's commitment. Commitment involves dedicating yourself to something or somethings as the case may be, a firm decision to do a cause. It is the willingness to invest… Continue reading What is commitment and why should you commit to anything at all?
Setting goals is easy, but the hard part is following through to achieve them. The ability to get stuffs done when you feel like just laying on your bed or even giving up entirely isn't quite easy. Sometimes we procrastinate and drag our feet when something really important should be done. We all need motivation… Continue reading 11 Simple ways to motivate yourself daily.
Hi guys, uuhhm... I've been gone for how many days now? 😔 Was kinda Ill but I feel better now. So yesternight just as I was checking social media for happenings around the world, I came across an interesting piece on feminism. Some of the things I didn't quite agree with. I did a piece… Continue reading On Feminism…How much is too far?
Routine, Routine, Routine! Sameness & rigidity can become too predictive and boring sometimes. It's true having routines can tremendously help things get done timely, but it could become static , too serious and fun-less. Who says you should take life too serious anyway? Wouldn't you rather loosen up a bit?What's your typical routine like? Work-eat-sleep-repeat right?… Continue reading 7 fun ways to be more spontaneous in life.
The sun illuminates our day, it shines and makes it bright. When it rises, darkness gives way and the cloud lightens up. Sometimes when you feel gloomy and sad, you have to be your own sunshine. Happiness is a choice and it totally depends on you to make yourself happy and stay happy. "Where ever… Continue reading Sometimes, you have to be your own sunshine.
Stress is a feeling we experience whether short term or long term, in our career, education, and everyday life. Sometimes, certain situations overwhelm us and we begin to feel "out of control". We may feel tensed, agitated, moody, depressed, anxious, excited or even angry. To respond to that stress, our brain releases stress hormones to… Continue reading Stressed? 7 proven ways to get relief.
This topic of discussion has been debated by clergymen, psychologists, medical professionals, politicians, scientists and even the general public. Are people born gay or is it a lifestyle choice? Sexual orientation they say is a trait some people are born with (nature). They say it is determined by biological factors such as genes or hormones… Continue reading Are people born gay?
It is essential to have a purpose for your life, something usually drives one to search for that purpose. That purpose gives meaning to life and your passion makes you happy. At some point, we all hunger for a meaning in our lives. Either a sense of emptiness, circumstance, problem, even the desire to attain… Continue reading 4 critical ways to discover your passion/purpose.
Hi guys, it's Monday and this is your Monday morning reminder... " You're awesome and you can do anything". I'm excited, I received warmly, the liebster award. This award is to recognise new blogs for their content, it's given to bloggers by other bloggers and I thank Mfon of http://daintym.com for nominating me. Do visit… Continue reading Liebster Award.
I've been reading some cool interesting stuffs lately on very mind-blowing ,weird but so-true facts. I bet there are a few things here we didnt know, just ignore or have never really thought of. Some of them will make you laugh, leave you astonished, but are all very informative and mind-blowing. Here are 21 of… Continue reading 21 random fun-facts.Did you know…
So recently, I've been thinking out loud. This crazy random thoughts bugging my mind and going on and on in my head. Was reading a magazine this morning and my head started imagining weird things and wondering if they actually happen in reality, how it'll play out. It's so humorous but then again it won't… Continue reading What if…( crazy random thoughts)
"One good conversation can shift the direction of change forever"~ Linda Lambert Often times in our not-so-busy moments, we engage in some conversations. We spend time talking about things which are relatively meaningless and adds no value to our lives. I'd rather call them 'crappy conversations'. Fatima wants to know what's going on in Bola's life,… Continue reading What kind of conversations are you having?
Are you like me? Inwards, reserved & sometimes shy? Even though I struggle to accept that I'm shy sometimes especially when I'm relating with an elder one or when I need to face a crowd of people, I am funnily shy sometimes. You find me looking away or face-down instead of directly at the person,… Continue reading 5 Simple tips for making a good first impression.
The ability to face adversity, maybe health problems, workplace or even financial and then bounce back even stronger than ever.~ Resilience. I used to wonder how some people despite facing all manner of challenges of life maintain balance in ALL areas of their life. They have problems just like every other person but they always… Continue reading That word-RESILIENCE…
Self-esteem is the evaluation of your own worth. The thoughts, feelings, opinions you have about yourself. It is usually shaped by our relationships and experiences. When you have a healthy self-esteem, it means you're confident in your own worth and abilities. However, some situations can make one develop a low self-esteem. Heartbreak, physical looks, not… Continue reading How to Improve your self-esteem.
Hey guys, it's Saturday! Whoop, whoop!! I love Saturdays like madt. I don't even know why, but I know it dates back to my days in early primary school. Infact I narrated my love for Saturdays here. So last night, as i was reading a fairy-tale story to my son, i recollected a lot of myths… Continue reading Myths or facts?
Women are the bedrock of the society. Our contributions towards a sustainable economy is no longer a subject of debate. We have clearly proven to be great leaders, entrepreneurs, CEOs, etc. Our position isn't just in the kitchen, living room or other room, we can also be in the board room. It's our celebrity crush… Continue reading 8 Inspiring Nigerian women worthy of recognition
At a point in your life's journey, it is normal to pause and ponder on your identity. Like..." Why am I here"? " Who am I really"? " What am I supposed to be doing"? Etc. When you were born and as you grow, you learn to walk, eat, breath, socialize, etc. The thought of… Continue reading Steps to self-discovery
This has been an age long debate. Talent, which is one's natural ability or Hardwork which is commitment & diligence towards a set goal. Which of them tends to take one farther in life and why? Let's take a peek on this; God bestowed on each person a natural ability, whether in sports, singing, leadership/mentorship,… Continue reading Talent Vs Hardwork: On the path to success…
We all want to feel fulfilled and happy. Nothing is as exciting as this ecstatic feeling & satisfaction, yet we constantly sabotage it by our own selves. To achieve true happiness, we need to give up on some certain habits to enable us attain this. I'm going to share 9 deadly habits we need to… Continue reading 9 Toxic habits that sabotage your happiness you need to quit!